Essence of AlphaMaster Your EvolutionI know, I know. My title sounds like it could be a pheremone cologne or something. Plus, there are already tons of threads and articles that deal with this issue, so what could I possibly contribute? All I can say is that, while I have found explanations to be mentally enlightening, there is nothing like good old-fashioned personal experience to put a unique spin on things. Kinda like before you learned to ride a bike. You had all sorts of ideas of what it might be like, but those mental ideas did not compare to the bodily knowledge you obtained once you learned. The bottom line is that you can read this thread and draw your own intellectual conclusions, but it won't mean a damn thing to you until you actually put the ideas to practice. If you have read my other post on Authentic Confidence, then you know my policy on thought vs. action. Now, if you have gotten this far in your studies of seduction, surely you already understand the premise of social hierarchy and the coveted alpha status we all seek. With all the fanfare/obsession over alpha traits, however, many people overlook the rest of the hierarchy, particularly at the very bottom of the chain, where we find the rarely mentioned omega male. Before we dive into the world of the alpha, let's take a good look at this omega character in order to understand what an alpha is NOT. ALPHA WOLF VS. OMEGA WOLF Another wolf analogy? What can I say, I dig these furry little bastards and they will serve me well to illuminate my comparisons. FEEDING - The Alpha always eats first and gets the prime cuts. Omega, on the other hand, is left with the scraps/bones and sometimes the other wolves won't let him touch the food until hours after they are finished. He rolls onto his back in a submissive pose and literally whines and begs until he is allowed to eat! (what a pússy!) MATING - The alpha has his pick of females. The Omega has to resort to licking his own balls. RESPECT - The alpha exerts his authority over the pack and they remain loyal because they depend on his superior survival instincts. Occasionally one of his ballsier subordinates will challenge him, but he is quick to put them in their place and reinforce his dominant status. The Omega gets picked on by the whole pack and is often used as a scapegoat for their aggressions. This only reinforces his submissive status. See what's happening here? Omega cannot compete with the Alpha because he is content to tag along for the ride instead of making his own moves. Alpha takes what he wants. Omega waits for everything to be handed to him. Alpha imposes his own will. Omega submits to everyone else's. The more you compare these two, the more you will realize that the human equivalent of the Omega is the infamous and pitiful AFC! Here are some human comparisons to think about : Omega falls prey to gossip. Alpha never talks shít about anyone. Omega participates in negative discussions. Alpha puts a positive spin on things or simply ignores negative comments. Omega lets other people's moods affect his. Nobody can steal the joy of an Alpha! Omega actually gives a fúck what everyone thinks. Alpha's opinion matters more to others than vice versa. Omega desperately needs a woman. Women desperately need an Alpha. Omega reacts. Alpha acts. Omega clings to the familiar. Alpha thrives in the unexpected. Omega waits for good fortune to smile on him. Alpha makes his own fortune. Omega is complacent enough to settle for less. Alpha is always trying to improve himself. Omega fears rejection. Alpha loves to crash & burn sometimes cuz it's just fun to try out new shit. I can already hear thoughts and questions brewing..."But Mr. Fingers, these are just generalizations, what specific steps do I take in order to become the Alpha?" Well my friend, the answer is not an easy one, so I want you to keep that mind of yours as open as possible as we delve into the fascinating realm of.... |
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