The Art of Phone OpenersI met another girl on the street. Opened her by asking where I could find a cologne shop. (Girls not only love to give directions, but are taken by a man who is not afraid to ask for them!) She showed me the way and we walked together for a bit. I asked where she was headed. She told me she was going to Dance class. Turns out she is a dance instructor. I was like "Cool!" We started vibing on the whole dance tip and I told her how much I love music and for me dancing is like the ultimate meditiation. I had the most fun talking to her. She put me on to where some of the lesser known clubs are at and I gave her a pen and paper to write down the addresses of the clubs with directions. She volunteered her number at the very bottom and said I should call her for a dancer's night out. I thanked her, gave her a kiss on the cheek and bounced. That week was hectic, so I didn't call her back until the following weekend. This is how it went down. GIRL: Hello? ME: Hi! I am wondering if you can help me out here. I am looking for a great dance teacher to show me a few moves, could you recommend anyone special? GIRL: (Laughing) ME:Yeah, you see I already know how to dance a little but would like to learn some more ... sensual moves that would require some private lessons.. GIRL: (Playing along) Oh really? How private are we talking here? ME: Intimately private! She finally caves GIRL: Who is this? ME: Why, darling it's the man of your dreams! (pause)Well..that is if the man of your dreams occasionally gets lost and can't find his way to the perfume shop GIRL: (All Excited) Fingersssss! You get the point, keep them on their toes, play with them, tease them and right when the vibe is at its nicest, you come off with "Sayyyy, what are you doing right now?" she answers with whatever "Well, I am ten times more exciting than that so why don't you meet up with me? I am heading to XYZ in a little while and I think it would be fun if we linked up" If she is busy, close her for another night. But you are almost guaranteed to get a meeting with this approach! Get her in person and keep that charm flowing. Remember to be yourself...not the fake scared YOU that anxiety/society has created, but the REAL YOU, The one who is comfortable in his skin and loves to have a good time. You...DO like to have a good time...don't you? Whatever you do, don't worry about scoring! Flirt with her, touch her, have a blast and all the while, imagine me cheering for you from a thousand miles away..because I am! Go get 'em Tiger! |
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