Mmmm...SensualityYes, it's true. How crazy is that? I actually believed that only I wanted sex and she was doing me a favor by "giving it up". I fell prey to one of society's most deceptive myths. THE PRUDE MYTH "Women don't like sex. And the ones who do are not women...they are SLUTS!" Newsflash: Women love to fukk. LOVE ... IT! Probably more than you! Think about it. Can you have wave after wave of multiple orgasms for hours? Are you capable of having not one but several distinct types of orgasms? Do you have an organ designed solely for sexual pleasure that is ten times more sensitive than a penis? Do you scream and convulse in ecstacy when you climax, begging for more? Yeah, didn't think so! So if women are obviously capable of levels of pleasure we can only imagine, then why does getting them into bed often feel like you are breaking into Fort Knox? The problem is the social stigma they are trying to dodge. Most girls would rather die than be labeled a slut. So they build these little obstacle courses for you to jump their hurdles and shyt. So therein lies our challenge. How do we break through this barrier? Well, let's review 1. Approach - She admires your confidence 2. Charm and Attract - Your playful vibe just brightened her day 3. Pass shyt tests - She is impressed by your persistence and disarming humor 4. Push / Pull Qualifying- She digs your high standards and your sense of mystery. 5. Rapport - She trusts you and there is a connection between yall. At this point if you don't make your move soon, the window of opportunity will close and you get the dreaded LJBF. Go for the kiss close but also realize that some girls will just flat out refuse to bone within the first 2 or 3 meetings. Patience is a good thing, as long as it is accompanied by persistence! Assuming you have gone through the above phases, it is safe to say that she is interested in you, and there is definitely a connection there, so now what? This is where the game needs to switch to the other side of your brain. You have to switch gears into Sensual Mode! The Power of Instinct Of all the inventions and ideas that the human race has brought to life, there is one thing we have always excelled at....sex! For thousands, if not millions of years, we have been very fruitful and multiplied like roaches. Our DNA is encoded with desire. We all long for the touch, scent, sight, sound and taste of a lover. One of the ways you break the barrier is to tap into this primal essence. Forget you are a civilized person or a minute and project your... Sexual State All you have to do is make polite conversation while you let your body communicate messages of desire. The first step is to actually become aroused yourself. When you talk to that HB, imagine all the lurid things that you want to do to her. Let your hottest fantasies go buck wild in your imagination. The beauty of this is that you keep the conversation casual, yet there is this erotic undercurrent that shows in the tone of your voice, eye contact and body language. Women pick up on these cues and will either respond favorably, or not. When faced with a frigid bytch, all you have to do is move on to the next. It's not like you invested any time or emotion into her. All you did was fantasize! |
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