Freestyling Street Approaches1. Your tone and body language matter much more than the content 2. Openers are worthless if you don't got game to back them up! The 3 Second Rule So important. As soon as you spot your target, and she spots you it is time to make your move. Don't think or plan, just force your body to walk up to her, grab your balls and go for it. This makes the approach feel more spontaneous and you don't come off as a creepy stalker. Note: Ball-grabbing is optional. Dealing with Moving Targets This is really difficult to do because most people don't like to be interrupted when they are on their way somewhere. You are better off following from a distance to see where they end up. I am not encouraging stalking here! The difference between stalker and Don Juan is that you approach and engage your target in a conversation. Keep this in mind. Eye Contact It's amazing how many people you can actually get to say "hi" to you. All you have to do is hold eye contact with confident body language and flash a sincere yet subtle smile at them. The smile is important, make sure it is a slight smile where your eyes scrunch up a little and the corners of your lips turn up, no teeth showing. Think Mona Lisa. This is a very inviting face to present to people and it also gives them a feeling like they already know you. Many times they will say hello, but even if they don't, I find they are more open towards me when I start off my approach this way. Introductory Openers "Hi!" (smile) "Hey, how's it goin?" "Hi my name is X, and I enjoy meeting new people. What's your name? These work okay, but you better have some tight follow-up because you got less than ten seconds before she decides whether or not you are worth talking to. Observational Openers You take in your surroundings and also pay attention to how she is reacting to her environment, then you comment on it. It could be anything from "Wow, the city sure is beautiful in the Spring." to "Damn, look at the size of that guy! I seen some fat people in my life, but he takes the cake!" It doesn't matter as long as you open with the mentality that you already know this chick If you can reframe your thinking to treat these hotties like they are your friends right off the bat, you are well on your way. The first pickup I ever made in my life was using this opener. I was on the subway sitting next to this hot asian girl and at the other end of the car were a bunch of roudy high-school kids who were play-fighting and saying the most lewd and inappropriate things really loud, generally causing a big scene. A few older people were put-off and moved to another car. I turned to the girl, shook my head and said, "Kids, these days". She was like , "I know! Can you believe how these guys are carrying on? It's so embarrassing!" We talked for a bit about the declining standards of education and how kids were getting dumberer. <-- she laughed at my mispronunciation, and then her stop came up. As she was gathering her things to leave, I told her that the streets were a dangerous place full of stupid thugs and asked if she wanted to be escorted home by a strong man who would protect her. I was expecting her to say "no thanks" like all the other girls I had unsuccessfully tried to hit on, but she surprised me by saying "sure!" I walked her home and she said she was hungry so we grabbed dinner and afterwards went for a moonlit stroll. We made-out in the park for awhile and she suggested we go to a bar. I didn't drink at all back then so I politely declined. We went back to our necking and right when things are gettin hot, she pulls away from me. |
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